From the way young people go about relationships today, one would wonder if there is really any need to go into one at all.
I was shocked when a guy walked up to me to say, "I dont really know why i started out with this girl in the first place. She is nothing close to my kind of girl."
My question now is , Why is this guy suddenly realising this after two years of being in a romantic relationship with this girl? Didn't he know from the first day that the girl was not his kind of girl?
The truth is, after dotting the 'I's and crossing the 'T's, i came to a conclusion that this guy isn't telling himself the truth. In as much as he might want to deceive the people around him, he can never deceive himself.
I don't think he had any genuine feelings for the girl in the first place. Who knows, he might have been beclouded by her physical appearance alone when he first met her.
My honest advice to the girl is that she should try her best to be strong and move on with her life. She should also ask God for His help/grace to make the right choice next time.
What do you think? Let me have your opinions.
Nneoma
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